“It’s not WHERE you live but HOW you live that counts. It’s not where you play the game but HOW you play the game that counts.”

What I think that this statement means is that you count with what you want to get and want to be not what you want it to be because there is no difference. You do what you think is the best but there will be no difference since there the same places but you have different surroundings that differ the place. :-)